Dear mom
Are you tired? Are you exhausted from meeting the needs of others? Do you feel lonely and abandoned because you know your own needs are not being met?
You look around and see… the dishes that need to be washed, the clothes that need to be folded, toys everywhere. No one really hears you when you ask for help.
In fact, you are not being heard. They do not understand what you are feeling. So much emotional attachment has crept into your life since you have become a mom. Emotions strike you in a way you didn’t know before.
Maybe your kids are a little older already. You sleep. You can take care of yourself, but you see that the bond and communication between you and the children (as well as your partner) is loosened.
You want to be a perfect mom.
Give only the best to the child. But so many times you wonder if what you’re doing is actually okay? ‘Am I a good mom?’
What would you like to change in your family?
Now take a few moments, close your eyes and imagine your perfect family and observe what you see. What kind of relationships do you have? What is the energy and dynamics in the perfect family? How does it feel? Good, right?
Let me tell you, everything you have just imagined is entirely possible. I promise. I know it’s because I’ve experienced it in my own family.
And I firmly believe that this can happen to you too.
If there is something you want to change in a child, then first look if there is something you could change in yourself.(C. J. Jung)
You may not be able to change the world around you, but you can change yourself. And consequently, the world will change. I will support you in exploring your emotions, your needs, in understanding yourself, in setting boundaries. In learning about a new part of you - mom. And in maintaining a relationship to those parts of you that are somewhat set aside by motherhood.
I will support you to meet your needs and to be able to take care of yourself. I will support you in all your doubts, fears, in all your darkness and light.
Because you are perfect the way you are.
You can book a 15-minute free consultation here.
Imagine waking up in the morning happy and full of energy. Your family works as a team. There are no struggles. Even when you return from work, each member of the family has the opportunity and time to satisfy their needs and also express yourself (you can lie down for half an hour or take a bath, go to the garden - in peace).
Challenges no longer represent anger and resentment, but are addressed mutually by the whole family. The boundaries are clearly set. You manage the chaos of motherhood with ease. You are no longer a tug pulling ships into the port. You’re a lighthouse that shines and that’s enough.
You feel relaxed. So you can really give even yourself to the kids and the whole family. With joy, happiness, energy. You realize you're a great mom.
Are you ready to make bigger positive changes in your family?
You can book a 15-minute free consultation here.
Here you can send me your personal note to start our journey.
Hello, I am Mojca Drofenik, the mother of 5-year-old researcher and creator Tim Mark.
Soon after birth, I found out that with the birth of a child, a mother is born as well. But in today's society this is often forgotten. Just as a child needs love, security and support, a mother needs someone who really hears her, understands her and tells her that the things that are happening to her are completely natural. I missed that very much myself. None of my friends have had children yet, my mother lives far away, on the other side of the country, and unfortunately, I don't have a sister. I missed a woman next to me who would understand me.
Maybe this situation pushed me to start exploring feminine energy, mother’s inner dialogue and yoga. I first became a yoga teacher and soon after a prenatal yoga teacher and a fairytale yoga (kids’ yoga) teacher. My son and I tried out amusing yoga positions, learned to breathe, sang, and played yogic games.
I felt that the art of communication was what really attracted me, so I have spent a lot of my time in educating in the field of expressing emotions, female energy and inner dialogue. I completed my education in the UK and became an emotional empowerment coach.
During all this time, I also opened my own business. My mission is to empower women and support them in being heard and respected by others as well.
When the student (mother) is ready, the teacher (child) arrives.
Being a mom is a new role in life, and few women today are fully prepared for it. But we all learn and grow and that’s what really counts.
Like mother, like son/daughter.
Just as a mother feels, so does the child. The child is usually our reflection. And by working on ourselves, we do much more for the child than it may seem at first glance.
My son was growing up and I was learning from him. I soon realized that he knew my weaknesses and sometimes took advantage of them. I also realized that my weak points were reflected in his behavior. I wanted to change that.
I was caught several times transferring patterns from my childhood to him. I wanted to change that too.
Luckily, I have already had a lot of tools to help myself and deal with those issues.
Today, when we come across a challenge, I first look inside myself and think about what my child is mirroring to me. I become aware of the problem and use my tools to change it. Consequently, Tim Mark's behavior changes without me changing anything about him. He learns from me, I learn from him.
If I were to describe my family today, I would say that all emotions are accepted. All emotions are expressed. Together we learn to express them in a healthy way. All opinions and ideas are accepted. Everyone understands their role and we really are a great team. A lot is allowed, we have a lot of fun. We explore, dance, sing together, we are passionate hikers, we like to ski and enjoy in the water. We are always guided by the spirit of exploration. Because Tim Mark is a researcher. This is another point of view that me and my husband are learning from him. However, there are clear boundaries as well. If they are violated, we sit down, discuss and set them up anew.
Investment
- (Payment possible in 2 installments of 135€.)
- We will discuss the challenges and set goals to follow during our coaching.
- You will learn to hear and express your thoughts, feelings and emotions.
- You will learn to use tools tailored to you to help you maintain emotional balance.
- We will explore your relationship with yourself.
- We will explore your relationship with the children and, if desired, with your partner.
- (Payment possible in 3 installments of 160€.)
- Everything from the MAMA program +
- We will dive deep into your relationship with yourself.
- You will learn the tools that will help you to transform everyday struggles into a thing of the past.
- You will learn to set clear boundaries.
- You will learn to express yourself, to be heard.
- You will learn how to deeply listen to your child.
- You will learn to hear and trust your inner voice.